I'm not trying to encourage
women to be gold diggers
nor write broke guys off as
useless.
This is just an advice from a
guy who have tasted both
sides and found that a
broke guy who is in relationship is not being
true to himself.
To be honest, most of what we have heard
about relationship are unfounded. Nobody
will love you for who you are when you don't
have shi shi. That's just the truth.
Even the independent ladies who don't want
your money will want someone who's settled
in their life. For them, finding a partner is
about finding someone who fits into their
lifestyle and plans for the future. That
includes things that cost money.
Below are the reasons why broke guys should
forget dating for now.
1. You are not ready for it.
You may want it but honestly you don't need
it. You need to be thinking of a master plan.
You need to re-prioritize your life and get
busy with something. Anybody who is having
some major financial struggles needs to be
focused on getting that together, not dating.
get your act together THEN date.
2. You Ego Will Be Bruised Money does
matter in our society, way too much. A
person's ability to eat and look good and get
medicine in time of need and take care of
your woman are the things that makes one a
man. Think about it, she called you on phone
and asked for money and you gave her the
same answer. "I no get". Then you found out
much later that she somehow got the money.
You ask and was told that she got it from
another guy. Your heart is darned if he is one
of her admirers that you are aware of.
3. It Is A Distraction A broke guy needs all
the time in the world alone to sort out things
and having a woman who will add some few
loads to his already bent shoulder will do him
no good. Don't tell me he needs a woman's
support because a good female friend
supports one more than his girlfriend. You
don't need that extra load.
4. You Will Be Cheated On You read me
right. Girls have the habit of getting bored of
things quickly, this is due to who they are,
which is coupled with the pressures of
society. Society always wants them to get the
newest and latest thing, so one day she will
get tired of hoping and waiting and accept
that guy who has been disturbing her. She
may not tell you about it because she
wouldn't want to hurt you so you end up
being cheated on.
5. You Will Be FriendsZoned She likes you
but cannot continue to date you because you
cannot take care of her needs. So she would
friendzone you in other not to lose you
completely. At least there is something you
are good at and she will keep your friendship
because of that. Women are smart walahi
6. She Won't Feel Loved Since
traditionally men are the ones that pay for
dates, it is impossible then to prove your love
when there is no shi shi. How can you
surprise her? How can you take her out on a
date or buy her gifts? How can you say you
love her when she cannot rely on you when
she is broke?
7. You Will Be Dumped Not because she
doesn't love you but because You are not the
right material for a woman who has marriage
and raising a family in her agenda. You may
be lucky to get someone who will stand by
you but a goal without a deadline is just a
dream. She will eventually get tired of hoping
and give up. Your Bottom will be dumped.
Sorry
I know that all people deserve to be loved no
matter who or what they are but money is
very important in every relationship so I think
a man that cannot afford to date needs to
wait
Posted By David Aniemeka
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