made equally. We all have our flaws and our
setbacks. However, there are some women
out there who really don't fit the mold when it
comes to being a good girlfriend. While some
men will openly speak out about it, others will
keep it to themselves, never revealing how
much their relationship sucks from their point
of view. In case your man is a part of the
latter group, here are signs that you may be
making his life miserable.
1 You're Extremely High In Maintenance
You nitpick at anything and everything
andare extremely high maintenance and not
afraid to admit it. You only wear name brand
clothes and you can only be wined and dined
at upscale restaurants. Money makes you
happy and all eyes have to be on you, no
matter where you go. Men don't really like
high maintenance women much, so your
must-haves and needs may be taking a toll
on your man.
2 Everything Is About You
No matter where you two go or what you do,
it has to be all about you. Every plan that the
two of you make has to be approved before it
can be put into motion. You expect your
man's day to revolve around you, no matter
what else is on his schedule. You make it a
point to remain his first and only priority.
3 You Pretend Like You Trust Him
At the end of the day, no matter how much of
a face you put on, you know you don't trust
your man. You look through his phone and his
laptop on a daily basis. You often accuse him
of cheating on you or of some sort of
infidelity. Though you tell him you trust him,
you really don't. Trust us, he sees through the
charade.
4 You Forcefully Try To Change Him
Your man will be who he is, just as you will be
who you are. While relationships require
change and morphing from all parties
involved, this change should happen
naturally not forcibly. If you are a woman who
tries to change the person she is dating, then
you're definitely not doing yourself any
justice. There is no sense in trying to change
someone, especially the person you're dating.
5 You Openly Criticize Him
Constructive and useful criticism is often
welcomed by most people. However, if you're
the type of woman who will openly and
publicly criticize your man, just know that
you're doing more harm than good. While you
may think that the criticism you're offering is
worthwhile and helpful, your method of
delivering said criticism gets rid of any
positivity that ever existed. If you're going to
criticize, do it nicely and privately.
6 Communication Isn't Your Forte
You aren't the best at communication,
despite knowing that you have to talk to your
man if you want things to work. You aren't
keen on talking about your feelings or
thoughts when things are wrong. You also
tend to bring up problems at the wrong
times. You're better at texting your feelings
than talking about them in person.
7 [bYou Don't Get Along Well With Others[/b]
When the two of you hang out with other
people, your guy always has to worry about
whether or not you will get into an argument
with someone or not. You don't play well with
others and you're not one to hide that fact.
Having to constantly go out in public with the
fear that you may start trouble is definitely
not a good feeling for your man.
8 You're Controlling
You like to have a firm grip on your man and
his schedule. You have a lot of say in what he
does on a daily basis, including when he sees
his friends and family members. Dating a
controlling woman is extremely hard for any
man, and it can definitely be an ending factor.
Though you two are dating, there's no need to
feel the need to have full control over each
others' lives.
9 You're Never Wrong
Whenever anything goes downhill or
completely wrong, you always point the
finger at someone else, including your man,
even if the blame is solely on you. Constantly
pointing the finger and always brushing off
responsibilities onto the other is a good way
to slowly but surely push a man away. In your
eyes you're an angel that could never do
wrong, but we all know that isn't true.
Posted By David Aniemeka
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