Wednesday, 3 December 2014

Ladies, Here Are 9 Things You Should Never Tell A Man….

There are a number of things that you should
never tell a man if you would like to have a
good dating relationship with him. Let us take
a look at them so that you can avoid them.
1. Being the first to say "I love you." You may
say this as a way of making him say that he
loves you too, but you should not try to push
him to say something he is not yet prepared
for. You will remain in an awkward position
when he does not do it.
2. If he promised to call but didn't, don't
confront him and ask why he did not call. You
will be basically accusing him of not caring for
you, and it is more likely that you will make
him turn defensive.
3. When you go out on a date, do not press
him to tell you when you should expect to see
him once more. If he is really interested, he
will get in touch. On the other hand, if he has
no interest, then you should not keep your life
on hold for him.
4. In case he does not keep his promise to see
you, you should not ask him where he had
been. The hidden question is really whether
he was out with another girl, which will just
show your fear and insecurity.
5. In case he had gone out with another
woman, you will simply put both of you in an
uncomfortable position when you ask him
whether he went to bed with her. Even if he
did, he is not doing it now.
6. Whether you have just started going out
with a guy or you have dated for some time,
do not press him with the question as to
where your relationship is going. If the
relationship is promising, you will simply
know this from his actions.
7. If you have something you would like to
discuss with him, bring it up casually at an
appropriate time. When you tell him that you
would like to have a talk, he will automatically
become defensive as he does not expect the
conversation to be enjoyable. You just need
to choose your time well.
8. However much he has hurt you, going
around stating how you have him won't solve
the issue. In fact, when you maintain your
cool even during a breakup, you will win his
admiration. But throwing temper tantrums
will only push him further away from you.
9. In case you suspect that he has been up to
no good, telling him that you don't trust him
won't make him change. Instead, he will just
get more careful, and you won't be able to get
the much needed evidence.

Posted By David Aniemeka

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