Monday, 16 December 2013

“My Ex-Husband Has Kidnapped My Son In Lagos, Nigeria”- UK- Based Nigerian Woman Cries Out For Help

My name is Esther *********, I would like you to
support me in publishing my true story. My son has
been kidnapped by the CEO of Peissy Mechanical
Works in Lagos Nigeria. I am based in UK, kindly
direct me on how to go about it.
Here is my story.
I am an ordained reverend minister in Foursquare
Gospel Church in Nigeria, I got married to my
husband in December 1978,I had my first daughter
in 20th June, 1979, Unfortunately I lost her, after
that I had an ectopic operation in March 1980, then it
was declared that my right Fallopian tube has been
removed and the left tube was bad therefore It would
be had for me to conceive. Holding unto God's
promises, I had four children for my husband with a
left Fallopian tube.
I had a second degree and my husband suggested
that I should travel to UK to do a 1yr course that will
enable me work in UK. He further suggested that I
will be traveling with my two children. He maintained
that he wants the whole family to relocate to UK to
have a better life but it will be on gradual bases. I
accepted this suggestion because he was never there
for his children as a business man; he was always
abroad.
On 13th September 2000, I and two of my children
left for UK and stayed in his cousin's house. The lady
had two bedroom house with a box room he returned
to Nigeria after about a month. He instructed me to
make sure I give his cousin thirty pounds every week.
Meanwhile the two children I travelled with I have to
give them fourteen pounds each every week for their
bus fare and school dinner every week. My husband
who promised me that when I get to UK I will do a
one year course and start working in my discipline,
he also promised to sort out my immigration status.
The reality of his plans started unfolding to me when
he took me with the help of his auntie to register me
in a care agency to work. That was the beginning of
my sorrow. Within a short time due to the fact that
he was not prepared to fend for his two big children
in Nigeria he sent them to me in UK. As it was
impossible for all us to leave in a box room I was
forced to get a bigger accommodation meaning I had
to work both night and day to afford such
accommodation for four children.
From 2002 he visits UK without seeing his family. He
further said he has spent a lot of money on his
children and on me while we were in Nigeria and that
he is no more ready to spend on anyone. I suffered
so much in his hand but as a minister of God I
continued to bear in other to save my marriage. He
would have affairs outside, buy syringes and
antibiotics and ask me to inject myself so that I will
not get infection, yet he infected me which caused
me a blocked tube and caused my ectopic pregnancy
which lead to the ectopic operation.
He once traveled with his brother's wife and when
they came back after weeks and I questioned his
action he started insulting me threw my things
outside saying I must learn to love the woman, when
I never hated or quarreled with her. He did a lot but I
still had to take it all because of my children and the
ministry. He brought my senior sister who trained me
to London and wanted to have an affair with her.
When she refused, he came back to Nigeria and told
me that my sister don't love his person and accepted
he did ask her for sex. Yes I know it is right for African
men to cheat on their wives but I give glory to God
who gave me the patience and endurance to hold
this marriage for twenty seven years. Unfortunately
my children suffered greatly as a result of our
separation. They became very angry and wounded. I
became angry and wounded too, I suffered
depression and was placed depression tablets then.
When the trouble was too much I told him that I
wanted to come back to Nigeria he vowed that if I
return back to Nigeria he will kill me and no one will
do anything about it. At the age of 13 years old my
last born could not concentrate on anything because
he missed his father and was emotionally
traumatized that was in 2005 I begged him that our
last born should come back to Nigeria, he said to me
'may God punish me, he cannot come back to my
family because I am now married'.
My son Emmanuel has no paper in UK he was
returned back to Nigeria in 2010, yet my husband
will send him out from the house that his stepmother
is not happy he is around. I was surprised to hear
from my daughter when she called the wife of my
husband's brother that the woman my husband got
married to knows me and all my children very well in
Nigeria before we left. I left the battle in God's hand
but now I am speaking out because he has taken the
same boy he chased out of the house to an unknown
destination and said that no one has the right to ask
him about him.
The last time I had from my son was two weeks ago
on a Monday morning around 5 am he said his father
is taking him to an interview. His phone was taken
away from him so he can't communicate and no one
can reach him. And his father said he alone can
communicate with him.
Please I need your help. He is presently in UK with
the son of his present wife, a boy of 7-8 years. When
he came he told all my children they are useless, that
he is preparing the small boy for war.
Fellow Nigerians I need your help my husband is in
UK now, he has locked up my son somewhere, I don't
know for what purpose my heart is troubled. Even if
this child is useless as he claims he made him
useless by abandoning him at a prime time.
I know Emmanuel is not useless, I am greatly
troubled, scared and tormented as I don't know
where my son is and if he still alive, please help me
find him he is about 6 feet and 5 inches tall, This is a
time of celebration you can imagine the torment a
boy of 23 yrs old is facing he is an adult and has the
right to his freedom.
Please in GOD'S NAME Help me my fellow Nigerian's.
GOD Bless.

Sent From David Aniemeka

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